What does the baby look like now? That is a question that my kids (and I) have often wondered.
If you are anything like I was when I was pregnant with my first child, all I wanted was to get past week 13. I had read that most miscarrages happen by week twelve and so my goal was always get to week 13. With our first child, I was at week 13 when I miscarried. It was the hardest thing I have ever gone through and the only time I have ever seen my husband cry. It was too early to tell whether the baby was a boy or girl and we have always wondered. My girls that are 7 and 9 know that we had a baby that died and they have asked this question- What will he or she look like when we get to Heaven? I am stuck on this and always answer that I don't know.
I do believe that all babies, whether by miscarriage or abortion, go to Heaven. What I can't seem to explain to my children is What do they look like? Will they still be babies or is eveyone the same age? So I am turning to you, my readers~ any thoughts on this?